The intention is that NeochatRoomMember can be created passed to QML and then be fully managed by it. It effectively just grabs the current RoomMember, calls the correct function then discards it so that we don't end up trying to access an already deleted state event.
There are 2 main reason for doing this:
1. Because I can, I wanted to see if I could do it
2. It gets rid of the janky qml re parenting stuff so should be faster.
